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Why does my child *always* have to be first up and down the stairs, in and out of the car, or they will have a meltdown or hurt their sibling? 🧐 This is very common among PDA children because it is actually a feature of their brain-wiring 🧠 and nervous system! Whenever their brain perceives they are not first or win, this will set off the threat response and they will impulsively shove past you, even if dangerous.